Sometimes an article is written that just begs to be read, that is so clear-headed you wonder how the world got this muddled on the topic in the first place. This is one of those articles. But if we stopped looking at “hook-up culture” as intrinsically good or evil, then what about those young women [...]
Archive for February, 2010
What Guys Want!
Posted in feminism, feminist motherhood on February 28, 2010 | 2 Comments »
Keep your eye on the ball
Posted in feminism on February 28, 2010 | 1 Comment »
Cross-posted at Hoyden About Town. Negative stereotypes about feminists abound in the media. And in response, several times a year another article written by a feminist comes out worrying about the damage done by the deliberate misrepresentation of feminism. I worry too. Women won’t want to be feminists, let alone understand the cause, if the [...]
Part II
Posted in 10 feminist motherhood questions, 10 things, feminism, feminist motherhood, motherhood on February 27, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
Not so long ago I mentioned a new blog, Feminist Childbirth Studies and Molly’s response on that blog to my 10 questions about your feminist motherhood. Molly has followed up with part two of her response on her new blog first the egg. (And by the by, I really like the new blog name). Here [...]
4
Posted in kindergarten, lauca, montessori, motherhood, motherhood bliss, preschoolers on February 27, 2010 | 2 Comments »
Lauca is a month off turning five. Four has been a big year. Reading and writing*, swimming and horse riding.. and now, riding a bicycle without her training wheels. “Did you know I was this good?” There is no such thing as humble when you are four years old. * A card to her cat: [...]
Bipedal
Posted in babies, bill, cormac, fatherhood, motherhood, motherhood bliss on February 27, 2010 | 2 Comments »
Today Cormac turned 10 months old and took his first steps. I wasn’t there but his father was, and I was (fairly) pleased for them both. I took these photos later that same day in our garden, in between showers of rain. Behold the walking baby (I am not yet prepared to call him a [...]
Being right
Posted in feminist motherhood, lauca, motherhood, motherhood sux, preschoolers on February 24, 2010 | 15 Comments »
Reading mainstream motherhood forums, which I don’t often do, I recall that motherhood is a very sincere business – everyone is putting their heart and soul into it. No-one particularly likes to disagree with one another, and yet everybody can’t help but be a bit Judgey McJudgey at the same time. I’m no different. I [...]
It bears repeating
Posted in feminism, surnames on February 24, 2010 | 8 Comments »
The act of making a choice as a feminist does not make the decision itself feminist.
Who did she grow up to be?
Posted in me, toddlers on February 23, 2010 | 6 Comments »
Me.
Boys love their mothers differently
Posted in babies, book review, feminism, feminist motherhood, motherhood on February 22, 2010 | 21 Comments »
When Andrea J. Buchanan wrote this piece she was the mother of a little girl and was also pregnant with a boy. She began to hear a lot of stereotypes from others about how boys love their mothers differently to girls, presumably better than girls. She started to consider this stereotype further… .. our relationships [...]
On fatherhood
Posted in babies, bill, cormac, fatherhood, motherhood, motherhood bliss on February 21, 2010 | 12 Comments »
Sometimes when the baby was very little and I had asked his father to take him for a while I would find them outside, his father sitting in a chair with legs out-stretched to the railing of the deck, casually using the stick of a hobby horse to nudge toys along the rug to where [...]

