Recommended: Mac McClelland’s “I’m Gonna Need You To Fight Me On This: How Violent Sex Helped Ease My PTSD” via Feministe. It is every bit as mind-blowing as the title sounds so if you’re not up for that today don’t read it, but if you are, then this is an amazing piece of writing. Truth-telling [...]
Archive for June, 2011
Incredible journalism
Posted in feminism, rape/sexual abuse, sex of the icky parental kind on June 29, 2011 | 37 Comments »
If this doesn’t make you feel like dancing
Posted in nothing, pop culture on June 28, 2011 | 2 Comments »
Tripped & Fell In Love by Yacht (has just been released).
The sky is falling in…
Posted in feminism, feminist motherhood, GLBTI, motherhood, preschoolers on June 28, 2011 | 18 Comments »
More reasons to marry a Swede. AT the Egalia preschool, staff avoid using words like “him” or “her” and address the 33 kids as “friends” rather than girls and boys. From the colour and placement of toys to the choice of books, every detail has been carefully planned to make sure the children don’t fall [...]
Have babies, make friends
Posted in lauca, motherhood, motherhood bliss, preschoolers, school kids, your guide to perfect play dates on June 26, 2011 | 3 Comments »
(Or ‘Make friends, have babies’?) We met at a park with our first babies and the fact that our children all play well together has since crossed over to being a happy bonus because the basis of our friendship is now very much her and I. So yeah, we meet at wine bars and leave [...]
The art of good defacement
Posted in body image, feminism, pop culture on June 25, 2011 | Leave a Comment »
Image from here. I have almost no idea what Princess Hijab, a Parisian graffiti artist is saying in much of her interview here. I don’t know a lot of art-speak but I get that this isn’t about the burqa ban in France. I like her concept though. Someone close to me is a graffiti artist [...]
Classism and mothers
Posted in body image, classism, feminism, feminist motherhood, motherhood, motherhood sux, pop culture, yummy mummy on June 25, 2011 | 19 Comments »
Image: Gwyneth Paltrow in Vogue. I saw this presentation – “Marginalising mothers through maternal style” – at a conference recently and it was filled with ‘nail on the head’ moments and as far as I know the authors (Susan Goodwin and Kate Huppatz) have yet to publish their paper so I can’t point you to [...]
Stick with this one, there’s a surprise
Posted in feminism, rape/sexual abuse on June 23, 2011 | 3 Comments »
(Thanks Jane O.)
How to get ahead
Posted in feminism, feminist motherhood, motherhood, work and family (im)balance on June 23, 2011 | 18 Comments »
DR. HIRSCH: The great discovery for me was the middle of the night. It’s all done, and everybody has gone to bed. You can go to your computer and sit down and work. The middle of the night has been what saved my life as a scientist. Hey, the middle of the night, yes me [...]
To the woman unconvinced
Posted in feminism, rape/sexual abuse, sex of the icky parental kind on June 23, 2011 | 20 Comments »
TRIGGER WARNING: RAPE/SEXUAL ABUSE To “A woman who agrees with the man”: OK sure, believe that some women need to take responsibility for preventing their own rapes if you want to but keep four things in mind. One. You know the majority of rape isn’t actually your classic ‘stranger rape’ deal, right, so I’d ask [...]
Writing a feminist blog
Posted in feminism on June 22, 2011 | 43 Comments »
It is all cunts, cocks and cries of censorship. Some of the comments I have moderated on this blog: cunt! Blue milk- This wont make the page, but i’m sure you will get to moderate it. you are a coward. that was a terrible response. You preach about rights, yet you seem only interested in [...]

