You must read this article by Roseanne Barr in the New York Magazine. You must!
Roseanne was one of the coolest sit-coms ever to appear on television, because:
- the show had two leads playing parents who worked outside the home and who struggled financially;
- the two leads were also fat but their weight was not the stuff of ridicule;
- the female lead did not rely on looks for her popularity;
- the female lead got to be angry in her storylines and not get punished for it;
- the relationships between the female characters on the show was supportive rather than competitive; and,
- the show tackled topics such as poverty, alcoholism, drug use, sex, menstruation, contraception, teenage pregnancy, masturbation, abortion, race, class, domestic violence and gay rights.
Also, let’s not forget that Roseanne is responsible for some of the coolest things ever said about motherhood:
I figure if my kids are alive at the end of the day, I’ve done my job.
And.
There’s a lot more to being a woman than being a mother, but there’s a hell of a lot more to being a mother than most people suspect.
Excuse the mess, but we live here.
I still love Roseanne. I haven’t seen her show in repeats syndication though – have I just not been looking carefully enough?
If you have FOXTEL /AUSTAR you can watch Roseanne on triple one hits. (CH 111)
I have really enjoyed introducing my kids to Roseanne.
That was a fascinating article. I can’t believe she stuck it out as long as she did. I wasn’t a big fan of the show, I think I was just a bit young to get it. I’d love to see it again now that I am a grown up mum and everything.
I really liked the show but I think I was a little young to get it too. Sobering article.
My personal motto/explanation for anyone who comes to my house or for when someone else apologises for not having a spotless place when I visit (not sure where I picked it up)…
‘It’s a house, not a showroom.’
A work colleague of mine told me a friend of his always said that dust was a noun not a verb at her place. I liked it so much, I pretty much live by it now.
My mother reckons dust is great to write messages in. Especially if you have kids, cause you can never find a pen when you need one.
I love what my sister says, the house isn’t messy/untidy….it’s busy. I quite often have a busy house.
Even my mum, who is very keen on and good at keeping a spotless house, draws the line at dust. ‘What’s the point?’ she has shrugged, ‘It’s there again the next day and it only gets up your nose and makes you sneeze when you move it around.’ (my dad and I are both allergy-prone, sneezy people)
I loved the article too. I always remember fondly the episode when Rosanne offers to teach her kid’s class about real domestic science – dinner for a family after work. “When is it ready Mrs Conner?” asks a kid, “When your eldest child comes downstairs asking when dinner’s ready” replies Rosanne.
I never really watched Roseanne (too young!) although it was often on in the background. Reading that article has made me determined to get my hands on all the episodes and sit down and watch it.
‘Nobody gives you power. You just take it.’ That’s my favourite Roseanne quote. Thanks for sharing the article.
HBO is developing a series based on Brett Paesel’s book Mommies Who Drink, (well that was the news a few years ago) so there may be feminist/realistic mothers on tv again.
It’s on freeview digital channel 11 at 3.30pm and midnight.
Not helpful programing times for me working. But gaaawd it’s good, there really isn’t and hasn’t been another show like it.
Thanks for the link to the article too.
I accidentally read that last quote as “Excuse me mess, but I live here.”
I don’t know which version I like more.
I always loved Darlene. She was kind of an earlier version of OF’s Loretta.
I really liked Darlene and David as a couple, and had to laugh when Sara and Johnny appeared together in Big Bang Theory.
Used to think Darlene was ultra-cute.
“Roseanne” was total genius. Laurie Metcalf and John Goodman were astounding in those supporting roles. I’m told it was the only TV show that the late, crazy-awesome, recluse filmmaker Stanley Kubrick would ever watch, which is probably about the highest compliment one could give.
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