We do these lists from time to time. See also, here. They might bore you silly, feel free to ignore them, they’re just a time capsule for us.
Mine.
- That you make your own lunch for school every day and that sometimes you even make my lunch for work. (Montessori winning!).
- Lately you’ve been interested in disability. You like to feel what it might be like to be blind and you ask about the lives of people with various disabilities.. and for a while you gave your dolls physical disabilities and converted their strollers into wheel chairs. I loved how effortlessly you explored all that – I loved that it was matter of fact for you, that it wasn’t playing with pity, just difference and variation in the world.
- I love that you can sleep in your own bed the whole night.. quite a bit now. I love that this meant you had your first successful sleep-over on the Xmas holidays.
- You really rise to a challenge these days. If work is set for you then you pretty much give it your best shot even when it is really hard work, like once you mistook an entire term’s worth of homework for one week’s homework and you just methodically worked away at it, morning and evening, until finally at the end of the week you burst into tears while we were getting ready for work and confessed that you didn’t have it all finished and that’s when I realised what you’d been trying to do, you poor darling little thing.
- You brush your hair and wipe your face this year, after years of me complaining about it. I really appreciate the effort.
- I like your hair. A lot. I just think your ponytail is the bees knees. You’re beautiful, little one. Your face is changing and sometimes you remind me of my best friend in high school. You have her pointy chin and her eyebrows and her dimple and her sparkly eyes. You mostly look like your father, but maybe there is a bit of this friend of mine in you, too. I don’t know how that works.
- You’re very resilient, you’re very adaptable. I feel like we’re doing well with you right now, like we haven’t totally broken you through our incompetence.
- You’re incredibly responsible and compassionate about animals. You always remember to feed and water your guinea pigs, and you get quite hysterical if your father is being lazy about closing the front gate in case our hens get out or dogs get in.
- I’m having this lovely peaceful moment with you as a parent right now. A lot of parenting feels like you have some balls in the air but not all of them at the same time, but right now, you’ve got it all going on and I am just enjoying this feeling so much. You’re really well-rounded all of a sudden – really enjoying your academic work and taking the challenges of being accelerated a grade in your stride, you’re developing all these new physical skills from your circus class (and envy-inducing flexibility), and you’re reading novels by yourself now, and you’ve got this happy little circle of friends you hang out with… and then you come home and make beautiful art and craft things.
- You’ve got amazing comic timing and you’re very perceptive. Like the time we were both crying – you, because you were upset for me and me, because I was feeling hurt and stressed out by something (completely separate to our little family) – and then we were talking about stress and worry and you said “well, you would know” with just this deadpan, perfect timing of yours and we both just laughed and laughed.
- We’ve talked about sex and drugs and rock n roll, when you’ve asked or we’ve come across something you need to know about (like used syringes in the park ) – but you’re still the kind of kid who refuses to watch PG rated movies in case they upset/scare you. It is people feeling sad or lost that you’re scared of seeing and I like that about you. You have such a combination of social justice worldliness and sweet, little kid innocence. You point out sexism and racism to me all the time when you see it. But you wouldn’t want to see a cartoon fox get its tail shot off.
His.
- You are finally reading. And you prefer it to being read to.
- Seeing how much stronger and physically able you are becoming after starting circus class.
- It has taken nearly seven years but we finally have you a (nearly) regular bedtime.
- You sometimes now give us a little bit of credit, as your parents, for not being completely ignorant. There was a period there where you seemed to disbelieve anything we said.
- I love all the magical little craft things that you make and your ability to whip up these amazing gift cards overcomes my ability to remember to buy any.
- I love how witty you are and how we can make and share jokes together.
- I love how unaffected you still are by appearance and I am dreading that passing one day in you.
- I love that you are such a lovely big sister to your brother and that you are so patient with him.
- I am really enjoying how much you are my little mate while your little brother is still so close to your mother. I suspect I will lose this shortly when your brother grows out of his toddlerhood and your mother is more available to you.
- That you remind me to pay our two speeding fines and that even remember how much they are going to cost.
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I love the bits of eldest child stuff I see in my own eldest, and also the things I hope to see in my own daughter. Lauca gives me hope for the future. But I should warn you, the not believing a thing you say seems to last longer in boys. Or maybe it’s just us!
I love these. My eldest is 4, so I enjoy reading snippets of what it may be like to have an older version of him one day. Hard to imagine at the moment.
I absolutely love this. What a great list.
Your lists still bring tears to my eyes. They are beautiful, honest and such a gift.
To me, my oldest often sounds like my ex-best friend. It is rather strange.
My 7 yo likes being characters (has a series of different grannies), and does a very good imitation of our 10 yo friend who has cerebral palsy. Not sure how I feel about that…
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