I believe in flirting. I think it is generous to flirt because it honours the flirtee and they can feel great. I flirt with men and with women and enjoy people flirting with me. i guess this has something to do with the meaning we make of the word flirt and how secure and comfortable we are in our skin and the way we go about it (ie no sleaze please) … the world would be dull and boring without flirtatiousness! I don’t understand why feminism wouldn’t allow flirting … am I missing something here?