How can you have lived for so long and still not get it? This self-obsession is a waste of living. That could be spent on surviving things, appreciating nature, nurturing kindness and friendship and.. dancing.
You’ve been pretty lucky in love though.. if I may say so.
Gorgeous scene from Jim Jarmusch’s film, Only Lovers Left Alive which is really about being in love in a very long-term relationship rather than being about vampires.